tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post7781254006438531755..comments2023-09-26T09:48:49.979-04:00Comments on ...but then I had kids: Liz Aguerrehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09465793815137696650noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-50618181007697014092010-03-06T09:32:22.925-05:002010-03-06T09:32:22.925-05:00love this post, the fact that you opened up and ex...love this post, the fact that you opened up and expressed what most of us feel as women, mothers and wives. To sum it up, I'm with you girl all the way.C.J.https://www.blogger.com/profile/12004153268370337727noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-3327702733944533432009-12-11T01:11:07.552-05:002009-12-11T01:11:07.552-05:00I laughed and thought my way through this post. It...I laughed and thought my way through this post. It makes so much sense. It is when things get tough that you learn how much you love and appreciate each other.<br /><br />I asked my husband if he likes "hubby." Turns out he doesn't. Who knew? See, you learn something new everyday!amber_mtmchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17871256362646081536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-78036736861484641142009-12-10T20:50:31.633-05:002009-12-10T20:50:31.633-05:00Oh how cute are you GUYS??!! I think Momalom'...Oh how cute are you GUYS??!! I think Momalom's next "contest" should be "...as written by the husband"... I loved hearing "Chris's" words. I mean the men are an extension of us, right? So to hear what they have to say lets us get to know each other that much better. <br /><br />Loved your words, couldn't agree more. Chris seems to understand a bit better than Tim does about it just being so HARD to find the energy and the desire to live life the way I used to. I know Tim tries to get it, but he just can't. <br /><br />You are an inspiration though... so thank you!beccahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15616867595961283505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-79223050227951197092009-12-10T20:04:14.488-05:002009-12-10T20:04:14.488-05:00I love the freedom and energy in this post, even i...I love the freedom and energy in this post, even if its topic is your lack of freedom and lack of energy. :) And I hear you, absolutely I do. It just doesn't feel like there is enough time in the day to play all the roles we must; it's so hard to switch off Mommy and turn on wife/partner/lover. But at least you've got a partner who says this: "The way I love Liz and say it out loud from the mountain tops (and don't give a fuck who cares or what they think) is what makes me a hottie." As BLW would say, Hot-Hottie-Hot!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-66025764948236928802009-12-10T16:18:31.556-05:002009-12-10T16:18:31.556-05:00I LOVE this! It is absolutely perfect. And I so wi...I LOVE this! It is absolutely perfect. And I so wish that I didn't have to be drinking to realize that I still have sex in me. I guess I don't always have to be drinking to realize it. But it helps.Goldfishhttp://www.onthreekids.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-47234867214051165302009-12-10T14:05:16.935-05:002009-12-10T14:05:16.935-05:00"I think marriage/children/mortgage sucks the..."I think marriage/children/mortgage sucks the sex right out of you."<br /><br />"Many people talk shit about their relationships and that it's the most important thing, but the reality is that they never do anything to nurture it or improve a difficult situation. People work hard at their careers, parenting, or hobbies, but don't put any effort into their spouses. Then, once the kids are grown, they wonder what the fuck happened. Well guess what, you got out of your marriage what you put into it!"<br /> <br />Liz and Hub..I mean "Chris" - you guys NAILED it!! <br /><br />I tell all my friends with small ones not to forget about each other. I wish someone had given me this advice. I look at Man-Child and realize that he will be gone in a couple of years - and where will that leave me and my Hubby/Chris?Gigihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05467164195744234746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-58594312104821955922009-12-10T10:56:30.850-05:002009-12-10T10:56:30.850-05:00hahahahahahahaha
finally the husband makes a guest...hahahahahahahaha<br />finally the husband makes a guest appearance!<br />you gotta love drunk aguerres.<br />and chris, you're not a pussy, you're just one the few last good ones.gilceliahttp://gilcelia.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-12276943782095440002009-12-10T08:47:21.753-05:002009-12-10T08:47:21.753-05:00You are so right that Life sucks the Life out of u...You are so right that Life sucks the Life out of us. We can come around, though. It takes hard work. It takes time usually. You two are soooo sweet doing this together.Nickihttp://www.nickisnook.netnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-19231072002511750652009-12-10T08:25:05.362-05:002009-12-10T08:25:05.362-05:00Hubby is always trying to get me drunk.
Apparentl...Hubby is always trying to get me drunk. <br />Apparently that's the only time the "old" me comes out. <br />I get what he's saying, cause I Feel it too. Life is hard, and I got lost.Vagabonds Mercantilehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03810766586409920216noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-63278334902201806872009-12-09T23:53:25.333-05:002009-12-09T23:53:25.333-05:00You two are so cute. NO, for real cute, not gross ...You two are so cute. NO, for real cute, not gross cute.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08482780547854011505noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-25117181907202652792009-12-09T23:36:34.095-05:002009-12-09T23:36:34.095-05:00I read 7/8 of this post aloud to Dan as he sat on ...I read 7/8 of this post aloud to Dan as he sat on the couch, clicking the remote. I wasn't going to drink tonite, been feeling sick all day, but guess what? I did. And now I'm wondering what to write. If I COULD write. If I have something daring to say. I've dared all of you! I better bring it!<br /><br />I digress (um, drunk some?). <br /><br />To Liz and Chris, <br />Reading about your passion makes me swoon. Makes me smile. Every time. Without delay. I am adorned by the beauty in your life. I am touched by the sweetness I see in your words - and in your pictures.<br /><br />I feel a sense of peace when I read about your relationship. It is true. And real. And lasting. This much I see. So clear. <br /><br />And to Chris, I am not a fan of "Hubby" either. So you will now be just Chris to me. Hello. And nice to meet you. And Dan and I just spoke moments ago about wanting to take a trip to Florida to see our old friends in Naples. I do hope you will join us in a night out on the town. We are fun. We will ALL have fun. But be warned, Dan does not hold his alcohol like I do. Heh Heh Heh.Sarahhttp://momalom.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-8381295684488352502009-12-09T22:44:37.753-05:002009-12-09T22:44:37.753-05:00This is great. So lovely to see duo-drunken-daring...This is great. So lovely to see duo-drunken-daring-dialogue.<br /><br />I think this should be a regular event, this 1/4 drunk, 1/2 drunk, 7/8 drunk direct from heart-to-screen mode of communication. And seeing couples share it is pretty cool. <br /><br />No go polish off that wine, and enjoy each other.BigLittleWolfhttp://dailyplateofcrazy.wordpress.com/2009/12/07/k-and-coffee-midnight-weary/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8201961112490811175.post-30886272115948117682009-12-09T22:16:32.926-05:002009-12-09T22:16:32.926-05:00Liz! and "Chris"! You rock. I love this....Liz! and "Chris"! You rock. I love this. I mean, I love it because you wrote about the hard stuff. Drunk. But you did it. Life does suck the life out of you. There is so much TRYING and WORK and REMEMBERING why we chose this life. And now I must stop commenting because my "hubby," who is not a hubby at all, as we are not legally married, is trying to SLEEP beside me. Because he is TIRED, because life is sucking sucking sucking. A lot lately. Thanks for sharing your love with us, you guys. Really, you're an inspiration.Jenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13969567138255166449noreply@blogger.com